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 This year we enjoyed the privilege of taking a long slow week at our friend’s the Carter’s gorgeous Horsehoe Bay lake house. I finally got my reading vacation. Just long days and stacks of books. Ah….Whether you’re lakeside, looking for airplane fiction or sweltering during swim practice, here are some of my favorite recent reads:

  On the serious side:

As Afghanistan and Iraq keep heating up, Meic Pearse’s Why the Rest Hate the West offers one of the most profound yet accessible critiques of why we find ourselves under attack. When Nancy Pearcy said this was the best book explaining the causes for our current clash of civilizations I scooped it up.  As the author affirms, It’s not about money.  It’s not “the economy, stupid.”  It’s a cultural conflict with people who value tradition, community, and a form of external morality more than progress, autonomy, self-expression, and individual human rights. Pearse exposes the hypocrisy of multiculturalists who preach respect for all cultures and then attack any culture that doesn’t prize their Western anti-values of “dogmatic agnosticism about all truth claims and moral questions.” Very insightful.  Besides, you have to like a guy described this way in his cover bio: “In his spare time, he enjoys not watching television.” 

  On the more humorous serious side:

In his newest book , On Paradise Road: How we live and always have in the future tense, self-described “comic sociologist” David Brooks chronicles our relentless pursuit of the American dream in Technicolor Patio-Man and Realtor-Mom detail. He probes the motivations of why we move more than any other people in the world, and why we work so feverishly and cram our lives so full once we get there.  He examines our collective imagination -- our American idealism that inspires not only millions of votes for the next American Idol but also launches the carriers and antes up billions of taxpayer dollars to export freedom to an oppressed people on the other side of the planet. While he never quite puts his finger on the reason for this idealism, Brooks’s book gave me great insight and vocabulary to discuss the role that imagination plays in our spiritual formation in my new book, Godsight. As always, the text is sprinkled with funny yet profound observations like this one: “Patio Man notes somewhat uncomfortably that in America today the average square yardage of boyswear grows and grows, while the square inches in the girls’ outfits shrinks and shrinks.  The boys carry so much fabric they look like skateboarding Bedouins, and the girls look like preppy prostitutes.”

  On the very humorous side:

Anita Renfroe has taken it to Rick Warren in The Purse-Driven Life. Beside the retro glamour girl with her pink leopard purse and matching chiffon headscarf on the cover, it reads, “It really is all about me.” With deep apologies to her friends, the Warrens, Anita mines her early fatherless day’s growing up on her grandparents farm, her twenty-two year marriage as well as motherhood and menopause for insight and advice for her readers. In just 140 pages you’ll learn how to implement “Great White Whale” communication skills in your marriage and “embrace your inner weirdness.”

  On the very serious side:

Christian author and speaker Carol Kent awoke one night to a telephone call that is beyond every parent’s worst nightmare. On the other end her daughter-in-law April’s voice shook with emotion. Carol’s son, a graduate of the U. S. Naval Academy and a lieutenant in the navy, was in the Orlando county jail charged with the first-degree murder of April’s first husband. The award-winning When I Lay My Isaac Down: Unshakable Faith in Unthinkable Circumstances chronicles Carol and her husband’s journey through shock, grief, guilt, and fear of a loving God who would allow such a tragedy to vaporize their hopes and dreams for the lives they expected to live. In a downward spiral of depositions, trial postponements and soaring legal bills they land on bedrock--a God who is more sovereign and gracious than they ever imagined. Woven in with Carol and Gene’s story are the stories of others who have walked through devastation and a deep biblical look at God’s purposes and even blessings in very dark places. Carol’s book is an excellent resource for anyone who seeks to know the depths and riches of God, especially in the midst of suffering. As I prayed for my dear friend Carol and her precious but guilty son, God taught me so much about justice and mercy—a story included in Godsight.

  Another inspiration for Godsight:

Cheri Fuller is one of those people who stands on top of the sand dunes and celebrates what Lewis calls the “holiday at the sea” with God.  Her book, A Fresh Vision of Jesus: Timeless Ways to Experience Christ, shows how God grows our vision for him by telling stories of how we see Jesus through the Word, through service, through trials, through mountaintop experiences and through his whispers to our hearts. In each section of the book she shares a story from her own life as well as a story from the life of a modern believer, a historical figure like Hannah Whitall Smith, and a biblical character like Mary Magdalene. Cheri’s confident vision of Jesus enlarges my own and lifts my prayers in expectancy to see what he will do.

  A book to make you wiser:

What We’ve Learned So Far: Thoughts on Turning 50 from Today’s Favorite Christian Leaders edited by my friend, Lucinda Secrest McDowell, shares all the reasons why getting older is getting better. What nicer way to encourage someone who is ambivalent about cresting the top of the hill than with these buoyant, confident reflections and stories of those traipsing down the other side? One of the benefits of knowing the author of a book like this is you get to contribute a story.

  A book to make you more intelligent:

I first heard Daniel Goleman discuss his book, Emotional Intelligence, at a Willow Creek Leadership Summit. This well researched book begins with huge assumptions: assume that our fearfully and wonderfully made mental and emotional processes evolved from an amoeba. If you skip the evolutionary hyperbole you can find some real insight into our affective ability to live well in relationship with others—the aptitude that Goleman says truly determines success and happiness. For example, here was my great take away: If you look up my personality in the DISC profiles, it will tell you that my profile has far more empathy then an amoeba, but is still short in that skill that Goleman says is the most foundational skill for emotional intelligence. Over the years God has grown my capacity for empathy, but I sometimes find that I don’t clearly communicate that empathy to other people. However those skills, many of them small, nonverbal ways of communicating, can easily be learned, and, thanks to Goleman’s book and God’s grace, I’m learning.

  Best airplane fiction:

Michael Crighton’s State of Fear is a techno-thriller with a twist. Here’s a mainstream secular author who lines his sites on…environmentalists and pulls the trigger, not with just superb Jurassic Park-like storytelling skills, but research and plenty of it. This is a blockbuster with footnotes—Footnotes!--that will blow what most people think about global warming out of the actually cooling water. As with too many of today’s bestsellers, you must navigate some sex and language but none of it gratuitous to the plot.

  On the road:

On vacations and speaking trips I’m discovering audio books, both from my local library and the store.

Into Thin Air…Jon Krakauer’s first-person account of the disastrous 1996 expedition up Mt Everest makes the miles fly by. Plus, if you’re traveling through hot, parched scenery it has the added benefit of transporting you 29,000 feet above sea level and cooling things way down. It does however make it harder to breathe.

On Writing…Don’t know if I’d ever recommend a Stephen King book, but his advice on writing rocks.

Confident Ministry Amidst Cultural Chaos… For the serious student of worldview Talbot philosophy prof J. P. Moreland makes a strong case for not hitching our ministry wagon to the postmodern movement.  An excellent critique of postmodern thought and a lot for Brian McLaren and the emergent church to respond to. Not a book , but a 5 CD set available from Kylie Moore (KMoore@dts.edu), Center for Christian Leadership, Dallas Theological Seminary, 214-841-3779.

  Women Who Read

Would you like to read more and enjoy books with new friends in your community? May I suggest you start a book group. We call ours, “Women Who Read.” I wanted to get to know other women in my community outside my church who shared something in common, so I selected two books, Maria Shriver’s Ten Things I Wish I’d Known Before I Went Out into the Read World, and Anne LaMott’s, Traveling Mercies. I snapped a picture of me holding the books and submitted it to the local paper inviting women to join me every other week at the library conference room of our local college.

Our group has been meeting for four years now reading titles that range from fiction to biography, current issues to classics. Now that the group is going, we all share in the book selection. At semester’s end we bring reviews and recommendations from trusted friends to Barnes and Noble so we can choose books no one has read and explore them together. If you would like to build bridges in your community and read those books you’ve always wanted, I encourage you to start your own “Women Who Read.” You can even use our title and write and tell us all about it.

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